Girls

I think most girls are quite easy to please. :/ I don't speak for most girls, don't speak for most guys either. In fact, I lack the right physical anatomy to speak for guys at all. But I already made my thesis statement, so I shall explain.

I found that most girls in a relationship want the same things - love, affection, attention, and presents. No, they don't want these things, they think they are entitled to it. As shallow as that may sound, I agree that that's the primary purpose of a boyfriend - anymore than that is a husband. Not saying that I personally subscribe to these needs, but I shall explain that later. For now, most girls.

When girls are emotionally attached to someone (ie: boyfriend) they obviously think they are in love, and wants to be loved back. So once said feelings are confessed, they become a couple. Therefore, love is a must, regardless of how you define it (attraction? care?).

Next, affection. When a girl is in love she wants affection and tenderness from her boyfriend. I think this is quite common sense generally for people to want affection from their loved ones. This is not the same as attention, because it's about quality, not quantity. A 'good quality' affection cannot be hampered by distance and time apart. A girl knows when she's given good quality affection versus bad ones.

After that is attention. This is where it gets tricky. Both guys and girls require attention from their partners. The difference is how much? Girls usually ask for more attention because that's their nature. A guy may require only a good morning and good night sms on a regular non-date day, but a girl needs good morning, good brunch, good lunch, good afternoon, happy hi-tea, good evening, bon appetit dinner time, good night and ten 'I love you's and 'I miss you's throught the course of the day.

Please bear with me. I'm no expert at relationship matters, but I am going somewhere with this.

And finally, presents. I don't mean just for special occassions like birthdays, anniversaries and Valentine's day. But for little things. Something as common as sulking sometimes can be defused easily with a present. I've seen girls who don't consider themselves 'materialistic' ask for a gift offering.

Maybe for guys who are not financially gifted this is very typical and quite hard to do, but it is actually the easiest. Most girls can easily appeased by a visible/physical token of the heart from their partners. Perhaps I am influenced with the way I am brought up that money was the easiest to ask for from my dad. Asking for his time, his signature, or anything that required him to be there physically was hard but money is easy. Just mention the purpose and amount and it'll get banked in. Or if money can substitute his presence, then even better.

Therefore, because I value a person's time and company more, I think gifts are the easiest thing to give someone. If I sulk, I won't ask my partner for a gift to appease me. I would rather appreciate his time to explain his situation and honesty above all else. I make it sound like all girls are shallow except me, but like I said, I am very surprised to see 'humble' girls demand gifts to appease them. Girls, why cheapen yourselves with gifts!?!??! (unless it's something extremely expensive then maybe, but still, gifts are cheap).

After all, time is the most expensive gift of all. Time lost cannot be replaced, and everything in this world requires the currency of time. Money can buy time, but time can always buy money back.

I think it's a good gauge of someone's commitment to their partner too. How willing are they to spend their time with you and all that.

So guys, be grateful if your girlfriends only need gifts to be appeased. Also, they are shallow, so go find someone else. :P

Ta'ra.

My Life So Far (Again)

Dear blog,

It has been a long time since I last saw you so I suppose I have so much to tell you now. Hrmmm, what comes to mind first? Oh of course!

Omar, one of my oldest friends got married! It is quite an amazing thing considering he was engaged two weeks after proclaiming he will only get married when he's 30. Pfft.

 

His wife Zara is very pretty. :3 Congratulations! You are an inspiration for reforming rakes the world over! Hehehehe.

 

What else? Oh yes, I turned 26! It's a good age to be! 25 feels like borderline to me, but 26, nobody can accuse you of being a kid or being old! Hahahaha. This has been quite an issue for me in terms of credibility. I hate it when people put my ability into question because of my age. Also, at this age onwards I will no longer think my friends are too young to get married. So to all my classmates, you have my approval to get married! (overrr)

 

I spent my birthday going on a food trip with my darling girlfriend. I went to Dip n Dip for the first time and found out first hand why people are addicted to it. I mean, just LOOK! AT! THIS! SHIIT!

The most delicious shit ever, I say.

Yulia also gave me the nicest present ever. Book vouchers! I always gave them away but rarely received one. And such a generous amount too. Thank you Yulia! You can bet your birthday prezzie will be awesome too! (are you even reading this? hehehe)

 

And lastly I met up with an old, old friend from primary school who came to KL last week. She was in the 'berbunga-bunga' phase with her boyfriend so I was kind of curious. Fetched her from KL Central at 2 am when she arrived, and sent her back to KL Central at 3 am two days later. In return I got RM30 worth of coins (in exchange for my RM30 notes).



 

 

The notes that she took from me were the only notes I had left in my wallet at that time, and I thought, if I wanna go out to eat I have to withdraw more money. But then my neighbour suddenly dragged me out to eat at the mamak shop nearby. So I had no choice but to gather them all in a plastic bag, and put it in a tiny hello kitty paper bag and go out to eat with it. I felt so medieval.

 

So that's it for this post, blog. If I continue anymore it probably won't end. Not that you'd complain eh blog?

 

 

Ta'ra!